Don't Make This Mistake Trying to Get Your Girlfriend Back

Johnny didn't know what he was doing wrong. He thought he had tried everything to get his ex girlfriend to return to him but nothing was working. He finally decided to get help. Here is what I told him. The mistake you make while trying to get your girlfriend back is driving her away.

No matter how much you miss her and miss being with her, don't ever let her know you really need her. Most people don't like a needy person. And acting needy can be a major turn-off to a lot of women including your ex.

You appear to lack confidence and look like you're desperate when you act this way. The last thing you want is for your ex girlfriend to think you are desperate and lacking in confidence. Try to hide your desire to have her back from her. Don't act needy.

Try to win her back by being her friend and listening to her. Start apologizing for the mistakes you may have made. Make yourself more attractive to her and other women. Build your confidence and self-respect.

Move on. Begin dating other women. If she cares about you the same way as you do about her, this will make her jealous. Every once in a while mention to her nonchalantly you're dating others. Act like you don't care about her romantically. She'll eventually realize what she's missing and come back to you.

It's hard for many guys to be able to get their ex back. They sometimes just give up. Other times, they pursue her aggressively, turning her off completely. They make fools of themselves trying to prove to her how much they need her. But by not making the simple mistake of being needy while trying to get your girlfriend back you increase your chances of success.

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