Getting Back Together With Your Ex - Don't Pull and Then Push

One of the main concerns for people who have just gone through a break up but are eager to get his or her ex back is this, "Can I really get back together with my ex?"

Well, the answer is definitely a yes, at least in a lot of situation. Of course, we have to be realistic too. There are certain relationships that probably can't be saved if your ex has already decided to move on. Also, there may be relationships that are really not worth saving after all. Sometimes, it is much better to move on.

However, there are also many miracles happening around you. People who are trapped in seemingly impossible and hopeless situation has managed to get their ex back and become even more loving than before. For example, men or women forgiving their wives or husbands for infidelity.

Now, here is a tricky problem that probably a lot of people will faced in the process of getting their ex boyfriend or girlfriend back. Most likely, you might have done all the right things to get your ex back. And your ex is starting to respond positively to you.

But here is the problem. It is possible that once your ex is responding positively to you, you may start pushing him or her away again. You might wonder, how is that possible? Well, perhaps an illustration will make things clearer to you.

Consider a woman, Cindy who managed to attract her ex, Peter's attention again. One day, Peter called. Cindy was getting very excited. So, she lose her cool. And they talked on the phone for almost 1 hour.

Cindy thought she is making very good progress. But all of a sudden, Peter start getting cold again. Peter has stopped contacting Cindy again. So, what is happening here?

Well, the problem is Cindy has been too eager. When you are not together with your ex yet, you do not want to talk on the phone for so long. Even if you manage to get your ex to call you, you shouldn't be so excited that you talk to him or her for 1 hour.

I know it sounds weird but this is just human psychology. Remember, people want what they do not or cannot easily have. So, when your ex starts to call you again, avoid being too eager and don't talk too long. It will only start to push your ex away again.

How to get your ex back?

Watch 2 video case studies that shows you how to train your ex to treat you nicely and how to avoid pushing your ex away.

http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-tactics